Friends With The Ex

Lacey and Jessica discuss being Friends with the Ex. Should you? Can you? And whether it’s truly possible to achieve.

3 Responses to “Friends With The Ex”

  1. 1 Lifepoet
    February 3, 2010 at 12:49 am

    I agree with you both. I think sex with an ex that you were in love with is dangerous ground, especially if one of them is not completely over the other one. Since, for most women, sex and emotions are connected, I can see that line getting a little bit blurry – especially if it’s phenomenal sex!

    Now, sex with an ex-booty call can be just as complicated. If you habitually made the effort to booty call this person this person for an extended of time, I assume that the sex was at least decent. However, as you guys stated, if you’re in a drought and for some reason the sex is better than you expected and the person seems different than before, this can open the window to a broken heart of false expectations.

    I guess the nucleus of what I’m saying is that, it works for some, but I would stay away from it like H1N1 because passionate sex can often be misconstrued as love.

  2. February 8, 2010 at 5:14 am

    sex with the ex. i’d be the girl who hasn’t gotten over the ex, while the ex is someone who can be totally emotionally detached and wanna hook up without wanting to have a relationship. jessica, what you say in this vid really helps a lot and validates all the things i know to be true rationally. it really is hard, though, because i still want to be there for her as her friend. no, not just her friend, but her BEST friend. i still don’t know what to do or how this relationship i have with her is going to go. . . . but itty-bitty steps, right? at the very least, when she flirted with me this past weekend when we were drinking at a club . . . i didn’t do anything. i could’ve kissed her. i know she wanted me to. i had several chances; she tilted her face up to mine a couple of times. and i wanted to, too. but i didn’t. things always get so damned . . . complicated.

  3. February 9, 2010 at 8:40 am

    used to get stuck wit EX since things ended not very well.
    the moral value is never reattach wit EX unless you,yourself clean & 500% sure tt u have no more feeling towards her.Yet she’s still hoping for something frm me. tiring.xoxo

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