Attraction to other women…

In this episode Jessica and Lacey delve into the forbidden relationship topic. She’s hot, right? J&L talk candidly about what it feels like, what it means, and how to behave when another woman creates a little controversy in a relationship’s dynamic.

Watch what happens… 🙂


5 Responses to “Attraction to other women…”

  1. 1 Reyna
    November 15, 2009 at 10:38 pm

    Well, about 3 1/2 years ago I worked out at the Equinox on Greewich. I was in a commited relationship with an amazing woman. However, I was crushing on you, Lacey, big time. The fist thing I saw was the radiance that streamed out of you. I was ready to go buy my PT package;)All I knew about you was that you were a PT for Equinox. I didn’t even know your name until one day I looked up at the board with all the trainers’ photos and spotted you. I just now came across your vlog and said to myself, “I know that face.” I was humored with myself when you and I would pass by eachother (there was one time when I was leaving and you were coming in) and I would trip over myself. What else do people do when they are on the elliptical machine but listen to their iPods and people watch. I’d glance over and watch you train members. I would just laugh to myself because of how innocent it, the crush, felt. I never had the nerve to go up to you. Actually, I think I just enjoyed being attracted to you. I loved my girlfriend and as Jessica stated, it came down to what my priorities were at the time and as you said, be good to people. I just heard something Warren Buffet said about a fool…a fool is someone that has made a lucrative investment that is very important to him/her and then goes and risk losing it for an investment that isn’t as important to him/her. I thought of the concept ‘cheating’ when I heard that. It’s hardly worth it.

    It’s refreshing to hear and see you two openly interact and share your thoughts about specific topics of interest. Much successful with your love, careers, happiness. Some of us are meant to be enfluencial role models. Jessica, with you as a smart, classy, strong fashion model and Lacey, with you as a fit, courageous, glowful health model….teaching people, especially young girls to believe in themselves and in their dreams.

    Reyna DiCiurcio
    NYC girl gone LA

  2. November 16, 2009 at 7:29 pm

    Hey Reyna 🙂

    Thank you for your sweet note… I don’t really know what to say? Other than you put a big smile on my face and you made me blush all at the same time, HA! 🙂

    I wish you would’ve said hello… But it sounds like you made the right decision for you 🙂 Thank you for being open enough to write this and I hope to stay in touch with you through our blog.

    Lots of love,

    LA… Whatcha doing in LA? 🙂

  3. 3 Reyna
    November 27, 2009 at 8:30 pm

    I was just in NYC from the 18th to th 24th for a wedding. I stopped by the Greenwich gym to see if you were in but you weren’t due back till Monday early. I thought about attending class at 6:30am but Sunday was the most beautiful, extended wedding, and I knew very well that waking up in my warm cozy hotel bed just before check out was the plan come Monday morning. My friend and I did have a drink at Ruby’s Saturday night before heading across the street to EO (well crafted cocktails). I was impressed to see the W hotel and Hudson Hotel using agave, fresh herbs, fresh fruits/vegetables in the mix. I invision savy health bars materializing.
    You may remember my friend, Marilyn, she trained at Equinox. Anyway, I had in mind to see if you and Jessica are interested in collaborating on writing a book (seperate from the Fitness Bible you two are writing;). It’s love relationship based with focus on emotional intelligence. I think we’re on to something here and so if interested, let’s explore further. No rush, no pressure, no agenda other than to help others better understand themselves so they can have more fulfilling, meaningful relationships (including the authors).
    I was sitting in my apartment on Jane and Washington a few years back and that inner voice (that I tend to ignore more often than not) said it’s time to move to the other side for the next decade, pack up and move to LA. So, I did, but not until after I did a cross country road trip that lasted a few months and spent a few months in Hawaii and helped run a dog rescue for a solid year in LA county. I’m in the process of working on a big project that will soon need a master mind group and investors. The only obstacle is me, everything else seems easy.

    Cheers to Honesty,
    City’Beach Girl at heart,

  4. 4 K
    March 28, 2010 at 2:58 am

    And what do you do when you are in a relationship where you love the girl and are comfortable with her, but are too afraid to leave because you’re worried she’s the only one who will take you?

    It’s hard to explain, but basically I am attracted to so many other people, but they are always straight or out of my league, you know? I just feel like if someone better came around, I’d leave my gf. But I can’t now because I’m scared I’ll be single for the rest of my life. It’s like I’ve settled for less with her because nobody else wanted me.

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