“They say that 2′s company and 3′s a crowd…. Or is it?? Lacey and Jessica discuss what it would mean to include a third person in your intimate relationship.
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Polyamory isn’t for everybody, but for those who practice it long term, it’s about more intimacy not less. It requires a lot of intimacy in a relationship to be able to talk about your deepest fears, insecurities, and jealousies. It’s not for everybody, though. For many, the benefits don’t outweigh the effort and hard work required. But for people like me, it’s a vital part of who we are, and it’s definitely worth all the effort required.
It’s all about respecting another person. If two people are in a relationship and 1 person is really into having a third, and notice the partner is around unhappy on the side but stays because the other one will never leave. It’s the responsibility of a person to let go and leave. Same with the respect a couple needs to give to the person who they want to be the third. Right away people are drawn to a person who is caring, supportive, well rounded and that person definitely deserve to be in a true committed relationship, and not strung along hoping the person will leave her/his partner.
Respect.Truth.Clarity
Ok Lacey’s facial expressions are the funniest thing ever. I am totally down with every.thing. you had going on behind that convo girl. meeeeee.2.
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